Harvest Moon Probs

Bought Harvest Moon:Tale of Two Towns and it’s pretty good so far.

But my problems are that it occasionally crashes on me and that gets irritating after a while

Also, one of the guys I am able to marry, Hiro, why would some one want to marry someone who looks like a shota? He seems like he’s just asking for a creepy old guy to marry him or ask for a check up……

How do I become more friendly with my owl??